# 60 days post op and 23 days pre op

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**Created:** [September 16, 2022, 4:25pm UTC](https://forum.livingwitheagle.org/t/60-days-post-op-and-23-days-pre-op/12143 "2022-09-16T16:25:45Z")\
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**Post date:** [September 17, 2022, 4:39pm UTC](https://forum.livingwitheagle.org/t/60-days-post-op-and-23-days-pre-op/12143/2 "2022-09-17T16:39:26Z")

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I feel for you, it’s quite a dilemma! I’ve never had kidney stones but know they are really painful, so I feel for you & hope that they pass quickly!  
Firstly, re the pains you’ve had on the surgery side, 3 months is still early days for healing really, so it’s possible to still have flare-ups, and random pains etc. It could be that you’ve overdone things a little & aggravated the nerves again, and also as they heal you can get strange sensations- itching, tingling shooting pains etc.  
As for the right side- you know from before that pain can come & go, so although it’s settled at the moment, it could well flare up again & as you say, you could then have a long wait for surgery. It’s also possible to get cross-over pain, so who knows, it could be aggravating your surgery side! Equally, if you had surgery on the right then it could irritate things on the left a bit as your neck adjusts, so if you do have a second surgery be prepared for that. As you have such extensive calcification, nobody can say for sure, but if you’ve already had symptoms I would think that they’d be unlikely to suddenly disappear forever…Whether you have the egg retrieval done first or the surgery only you can decide, it’s a difficult decision.  
Re the tightness & swelling where the incision is, there are several discussions about massage of the scar & healing, so have a look through if you have time; here’s a couple of recent ones:  
[Post op incision care recommendation to others - General - Living with Eagle](https://forum.livingwitheagle.org/t/post-op-incision-care-recommendation-to-others/11727/5)  
[Novafon, sound wave self-massaging device - Symptoms and Treatments - Living with Eagle](https://forum.livingwitheagle.org/t/novafon-sound-wave-self-massaging-device/12073)  
Food for thought? Will pray that you kidney stones improve soon & that you make the best decisions for you, sending you a hug 🤗 🙏

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