Good advice from David & CindyLou, & have a look at the Doctors List as Weezie suggests & see if there’s anyone you could be referred to- you may have to travel though…otherwise if there’s no possibilities, I’d suggest that you look into whether you could see an Otolaryngologist/ Skull base surgeon in your area, or as Weezie suggests a Head & neck cancer surgeon, as they operate in the same area as the styloid processes.
If you’re getting facial pain, it sounds like it could be nerve pain, so there are medications which can help with that; there’s info in the Newbies Guide Section about it, here’s the link:
I’d suggest that you see your GP/ PCP & ask to try one of the medications if you haven’t already, they take a little while to build up in your system, so you may have to be patient.
I hope this helps, ask anything else, & let us know how you get on…