Ok this is really CYA for them-they give you the meds to deal with the pain then act like its your fault so they can't be held responsible. I went to the pain center at cedars and Dr. Graff-Radford listened to my history and after suggesting many pills I've been on recommended removal--after 15 years wow! but it was the start down my road to surgery. drugs do nothing so we should have it removed. Wow! quite a novel idea. But I finally had surgery.
Shidig--do you have your scans? Anything that shows your styloids? My best pics were a panorex--reading the posts there is always this thing we need to do--to get so much info to get the doctor to operate and they still don't. I think its just luck to find the one who will do it. Then we start trying to convince ourselves that our symptoms are there. because we have so much time to kill between diagnosis and action.
I forgot how quick medicine can be--in 1990 I was diagnosed with ES on the right in sept. and it was removed in November. In January I was diagnosed with bladder cancer and 1 week later the tumor was removed.
I do not get this snails pace of nothing ness. do it or get me to another doctor! they just make you wait and then tell you are addicted to rx's they gave you? To quote monty python--"intercourse them".
Can you go to another doctor? if I follow your trip----They have no records don't know what to talk to you about show they are amateurs, but whatever it is, it's your fault. move on now-these doctors aren't doctoring-they are wastes. or is it "do the most harm".
If this is their reasoning advise them that they are the ones who prescribed in place of operating. turn it around and ask them what are you going to do when you are 40? since they are so worried. It might not help but getting it off of you is a great feeling.
Tell them to lead, follow or get out of the way. You are stuck in the viscous circle and you need the exit with this group.
I'm speaking from experience and it only ended by blind luck when my uncomfortable cedars ENT sent me to UCLA head & neck and my cedars insurance saw the fees and found doctors in house to save money. same avoidance but the outcome was good this time.
I'd been to USC, Cedars many times, UCLA, CU med in Denver and then I see doctors at cedars I'd never heard of and they were there all the time-even though my surgeon might have been in chief intern in Denver when I went there.
I know its hard to look elsewhere since I didn't because I thought one more appointment will convince them--no not true. One appointment is all it should take to get surgery if the doctor has any smarts.
That became my mantra-one appointment if I don't see light in their head I moved on.
I was in so much pain "don't waste our time" was my exit line.
good luck and move on you really don't need this crap I've read. wow I had a bitter 15 years!