I’m so sorry that you’ve been messed about like this! It’s so rubbish that they’re expecting you to pay for a private consultation in the hope that you can then get them to agree to surgery on the NHS…Did you look into trying to get your ENT or GP to refer you to the surgeon @Lemontree is seeing, we mentioned it earlier in the thread? Here’s her update:
Suregry with TORS - General - Living with Eagle
Sending you a hug, and don’t give up, keep fighting 