Kandi, when I had vascular Eagles (the styloid was compressing my carotid artery and jugular vein), I had somewhat similar symptoms. Mine weren’t quite as bad as yours, but I was very weak, couldn’t work, and felt like I was going to die. And it all happened within a couple months as well.
The thing is we don’t always know if the symptoms are caused Eagles or not until we get the surgery and the symptoms are resolved.