@Rfoxed - In your video images, I can see that your styloids are pretty normal length but are chunky. The left one has a “finger” of calcification at its tip & the right one may too. These features of thickness & irregular shape could predispose them to be causing some of your symptoms. The transverse processes of your C1 may be more rotated posteriorly than normal but that is likely an incidental finding that is of no significance.
Your hyoid bone looks ok to me, but as @TML said, w/o being able to see the local veins & arteries, it’s impossible to tell if it may be contributing to your symptoms.
Other things of note are that you have an excess bony growth on the left side of C1 as well as an atypical shape to the spinous process of C2. I don’t know if either of these could be contributing to your symptoms. I just wanted to point them out.
Your cervical spine has mostly lost its lordotic curve which brings your styloid & hyoid bone into closer contact w/ nerves, veins & arteries in your neck. That can be corrected with gentle exercises. (see this discussion: List of my favourite resources on YouTube to learn anatomy)
I suspect my findings aren’t going to be instrumental in you getting a proper diagnosis but they are points of interest perhaps for a discussion w/ Dr. Cognetti.