Nobody should have to fight this hard to get the help they need. Nobody should have to wait this long for relief. Nobody should have to put up with this. However, at the very least, you appear to be in good company, here - you appear to be running into the same issues we all do, which are that Eagles Syndrome is rare, doctors to treat it are rarer and fighting tooth and nail for your healthcare is a requirement if you want help. Don’t give up.