Hey Jebin,
My name is Merl from the Modsupport Team here on Ben’s Friends.
You’ve been given some really good advice here by both @Jules and @Isaiah_40_31
Many/most dr’s will try to avoid surgery if they can, even if there is an obvious issue. I too have been put through all of the ‘alternative options’ and although my situation is not Eagles related (I have a brain tumour) I’ve been sent down many of the same routes as it sounds you are being directed.
Here’s my advice: Follow through with the medicos advice. But document EVERYTHING.
If they want to give you a magic potion (medication), trial them. If they have a treatment regime, trial it. Exhaust every option they suggest, eliminate them all, even if the suggestion sounds way off course, trial it. The very minute you discount or negate a medically given theory, they can turn it around and label it as ‘Not following medical advice’ or label you as a ‘Non-compliant patient’. These are both ‘labels’ I’ve been given because I question Drs and many don’t like being questioned. I’ve had some nasty experiences with medications and treatments, so I question everything.
What I have found is that that one theory/idea you reject can become that ‘out’ that the medicos often need when every other theory has proven negative. “ohh, but you haven’t tried ‘X’ and ‘X’ might just work for you…”. My ‘X’ was Botox. To me Botox was for cosmetic purposes and it would take lots more than Botox to fix me cosmetically
, so I kept saying ‘No’. He gave me the ‘It’s been a miracle cure for others…’ type line ‘…and it could be your key.’ So, I had the treatment of 50ish shots every 3 months, after 9mths I stopped it. It wasn’t my key. But the neurologist could no longer point at Botox as a treatment I rejected.
I’ve trialled every suggestion made: “It could be your eyes…” …I now wear glasses.
It could be muscle tension… …I trialled Botox. Bought a hydrotherapy jacuzzi, trialled massage, reflexology, acupuncture, manipulative physio
It could all be stress related… …took relaxation classes ie mind, body, soul. Saw a Counceller/psych. Attended a pain clinic.
Saw a dietitian, adjusted my lifestyle to accommodate.
etc
etc
etc
If someone suggested it, I trialled it. And most importantly, I documented it all. I have copies of every test, every scan, every report, everything. This helped reduce duplication, because you could bet when changing from one dr to another they’d order the same test, to get the same result, or recommend a treatment regime I’d already trialled. Having it documented stopped them repeating it all. ‘I’ve already had that scan/test and here’s the results/report…’ It also demonstrated I was being proactive in my own care.
When it comes to some medications it can take time for what the medicos call ‘a therapeutic dose’ to build up sufficiently to take effect in the body. I was trialled on some migraine treatments that took a month to take effect, then months of the trial. Then I had to have a slow reduction coming off of them. Stopping them ‘cold’ was a known risk. In all the trial was around 6-7 months. To be honest, I wasn’t all that worried about the time the trial took. If it worked, that’s all I wanted. Unfortunately, they didn’t work. Sure, there were benefits in changing my lifestyle, but it didn’t resolve my pain issues.
Merl from the Modsupport Team