Hi there,
I have just got to this e-mail - and do belong to the support group, so you may already know my story.
I had my elongated styloid processes very successfully removed by Dr Hoekstra at Greenacres Hospital, Port Elizabeth, South Africa. He is actually a plastic surgeon who does reconstructive surgery, so was well qualified to tackle that sort of procedure.
It did take a while to find someone who believed that Eagle's Syndrome was the cause of earache, neck and head pain on one side, and faintness and slight nausea on the other, which I felt on turning my head.
They were removed extra-orally, and I am now without symptoms. What a relief!